Charlene Lichtenstein: No! The more the merrier! Whatever we lack in our charts is what we seek in others. I happen to lack earth (stability....common sense....) which I found in my partner who is Taurus with lots more earth in the other planets! Be careful of what you wish!
Check your ascendant, midheaven and your other planets to see if you lack air (flexibility, mental acuity, sociability). You may be seeking it in others and can find fulfillment there with them because of it.