Albuqueruqe, NM: I was born April 9, 1978 at 10:15 AM in Detroit, MI. I recently broke up with my girlfriend of 4 years. I am still pretty despondent about the whole thing, and I am wondering if I did the right thing? Thanks!
Charlene Lichtenstein: I would love to know your girlfriends birth info too but you have Sun in Aries, Moon and Venus in Taurus. You are pioneering and direct in general but emotionally and in love you are rock solid and loyal and not prone to abrupt action.
Possibly Cancer rising which places Capricorn on your 7th house of relationships. That means a couple of things to me - one is that you are not as confident as you should be in relationships. Maybe you feel that you don't measure up.
It also means that you will meet someone older and more established.
Do not beat yourself up over this relationship. I will bet that as you proceed to apply the lessons that you learned during you last Saturn Return at age 30, you will build on your personal confidence and can meet someone just perfect for you! Patience!!